W6L5: Life Purpose Connection Process Dyad Exercise

Overview & Purpose

  • Client Connection Experience Dyad Exercise
  • Be a Sacred Witness
  • Connect with your Dyad partner and your Conscious Higher-Self
  • Practice into the (Pain) Stuck-Fear-Truth Technique when necessary
  • Short Client Connection Script
  • Life Purpose Connection Process Dyad Exercise

Activity

  • Schedule a Dyad Meeting: Set a mutually agreeable time with your Dyad partner.
  • Be sure that your scheduled time is after this week’s Group Intuitive Coaching Call.
  • Time frame: Plan for about 60-90 minutes in total
  • Preparation: Do the Self-Connection Meditation Practice just before meeting up with your dyad partner for the best results
  • Action: Dyad-Connection Practice and Conscious Higher-Self Dyad exercise

Duty of Care:

  • You have a duty of care to yourself and your dyad partner
  • I have a duty of care to each of you
  • If you find that you are out of your comfort zone or skill level in the midst of a process with your Dyad partner, safely pause the process and contact me
  • Telegram messenger or [email protected]
  • If it is urgent, 437-928-9826 (Canada)
  • For international calls, the Canadian country code is 1

Intention: Practice

  • Please do not take on the responsibility of offering advice to your Dyad partner.
  • Share information as it was revealed to you in the spirit of practice.
  • Co-creatively inquire about feeling mind process interpretations.

Short Client Connection Script

We are going to use Gravity to become deeply grounded.

Then we are going to do a set of hand positions starting with resting your hands over your navel area, then on the sides of your head resting your palms above your ears and then resting on your upper chest, ending with resting your hands on the top of your thighs.

At the last hand position with your hands on your thighs, I am going to ask you to repeat your common name four times out loud, nice and clear and strong.

Let’s begin. I invite you to close your eyes, become quiet and start focusing on yourself.

 (Pause.)

First Listening Station:

  1. Imagine you can feel the gravity, a downward pushing sensation, from the top of your head to the ends of your fingers and toes.
  2. Use this downward pushing sensation to relax every part of your being
  3. Relax your face
  4. Relax down through your neck and drop your shoulders
  5. Lift upwards slightly the base of your skull from the back of your head, lengthening the back of your neck
  6. Allow yourself to keep relaxing and following the pushing down sensation of gravity
  7. Relax your whole body
  8. Notice any tension anywhere and imagine gravity easing the stress
  9. Relax your breathing
  10. Feel your elbows being pulled down to the ground
  11. Relax your belly, your spine
  12. Bring your awareness to your pelvis
  13. Feel your weight in your chair
  14. Just imagine you can push that gravity into your hips so that they relax deeply.
  15. Guide that downward pushing sensation of gravity down your legs, around your knees, deep into your calves, relaxing your ankles, pushing into your feet
  16. Bring your awareness to the middle of the balls of your feet
  17. There is an acupressure point there called Bubbling Spring
  18. Just by thinking about it, you activate it
  19. You might have a sensation
  20. Imagine pushing your energy through that point deep and wide into the earth.

(Pause.) 

Document your findings

Second Listening Station:

  • Now, I’d like you to place your hands over your navel area

(Pause.) 

Document your findings

Third Listening Station:

  • Now, rest your hands on the sides of your head, with the heels of your hands sitting just above the top of your ears

(Pause.) 

Document your findings

Fourth Listening Station:

  • Now, you can relax your hands and place them on the upper centre part of your chest.

(Pause.) 

Document your findings

Fifth Listening Station:

  1. Now, you can rest your hands on the tops of your thighs, palms down
  2. With the intention of calling all the parts of you to be present, I’d like you to say/sing your common name, your first and last name, out loud four times from this deeply connected state of being.
  3. Steady and strong
  4. When you are ready, four times

(Pause.) 

Document your findings

Return to an alert state and share your findings:

  1. (Insert Recipient/Client’s first name) I invite you to come back now to an alert state (Pause.) 
  2. Ask your Recipient: “How are you feeling?”
  3. I’d like to invite you to share your intentions for today
  4. I’d like to share what came through for you at each of the listening stations

Step 6: After Listening Station #5

Sacred Witness:

  • After Listening Station 5, invite your Recipient to an alert state and ask them how they feel.
    • If they feel balanced and peaceful, ask them to share their intention before revealing your ‘intuitive findings’ from each Listening Station.
  • If they are processing (physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually), slide seamlessly into (Pain) Stuck-Fear-Truth Technique.
    • “Tell me, what are you feeling right now?” 
    • When you have taken them through the (Pain) Stuck-Fear-Truth Technique, invite them to share their intention or focus for their session.
  • Then proceed with sharing your ‘intuitive findings’ from each Listening Station.
    • At any point, your Recipient may begin to (physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually) process as they respond to your intuitive findings.
      •  When necessary, transition into (Pain) Stuck-Fear-Truth Technique as many times as required.

Step 7:

  • When you have finished sharing your intuitive findings from all Five Listening Stations, invite your Recipient to keep their eyes open, soft, relax and take some gentle, deep breaths.
  • If you feel confident and trusting of your intuition at this moment, decide whether your Recipient would benefit (connection wise) from partially closing their eyes (looking at cheeks) or keeping their eyes open for the Life Purpose Connection Process.
    • This decision may change during the process as well
    • Be mindful of your Recipient/Client ‘hiding’ fully behind closed eyes and gently invite them to open their eyes and stay connected to you, reassuring them you are in a fully supportive role 

Now you are ready to begin Phase 1, guiding your Recipient through the Life Purpose Connection Process (Script listed below) with mindfulness, genuine curiosity and enthusiasm

  • Remain very present and connected with your Recipient/Client.
  • Instruct your Recipient/Client to answer a set of questions from a ‘first thought’ mindset (thoughts, images, sensations, feelings, concepts, textures, colours).
  • Keep your mind clean and still so that your ideas and intuitive awareness do not influence your Recipient/Client energetically.
  • As you move through the Life Purpose Connection Process script, speak each question as if it’s a brand-new prompt, every time, with a slightly different yet curious and open tone to your voice. Document and ground your Recipient/Client’s responses so that you can take them through Phase 2 of this process. 
    Pro tips:
    • Listen, feel, observe without a shred of judgement. 
    • When you fall into judgement, you instantly influence your Recipient energetically and vibrationally. 
    • Tragically, it is no longer safe for Recipients to go deep into their pain to discover their truth with you when this happens. 
    • Be a champion Sacred Witness and, like Kannon, hold the gate to their freedom open wide. 
    • If your Recipient/Client is answering from their cerebral mind, gently interrupt their process.
      • Invite them to rest their hands on their upper chest. 
      • Then return to the process from a feeling mind perspective. 
      • It is essential that your Recipient/client experience feeling their answers instead of thinking.

Sacred Witness Phase 1: 

Life Purpose Connection Process – Script: 

Now, (insert the name of your Recipient/Client), I’d like to guide you through a simple inquiry process that may reveal new information about who you are. 

As I ask you a set of simple questions, I invite you to remain in a beginner’s mind, feeling your responses and tracking the very first thoughts, images, sensations that erupt in your awareness. 

I will document your answers, and then we will move into the second phase of this process. 

Stage 1

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:

  • Who are you? I am…
  • Who are you? I am…
  • Who are you? I am…

Stage 2

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:        

  • What do you love to do? I love to…
  • What do you love to do? I love to…
  • What do you love to do? I love to…

Stage 3

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:

  • What do you feel qualified to teach? I feel qualified to teach…
  • What do you feel qualified to teach? I feel qualified to teach…
  • What do you feel qualified to teach? I feel qualified to teach…

Stage 4

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:

  • Who do you do it for? I do it for…
  • Who do you do it for? I do it for…
  • Who do you do it for? I do it for…

Stage 5

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:

  • What do those people want or need that you can give them? They want or need…
  • What do those people want or need that you can give them? They want or need…
  • What do those people want or need that you can give them? They want or need…

Stage 6

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response: 

  • How do they change or transform from what you give them? They become…
  • How do they change or transform from what you give them? They become…
  • How do they change or transform from what you give them? They become…

Stage 7

Sacred Witness, ask your Recipient this question 3 separate times and document their response:

  • How does that make you feel? It makes me feel…
  • How does that make you feel? It makes me feel…
  • How does that make you feel? It makes me feel…

Sacred Witness Phase 2: 

Repeat Your Recipient/Client’s Responses and Document Their Response

  • Invite your Recipient/Client to listen to you as you repeat their responses one at a time, leaving room for them to respond from the mindset of “How does that make you feel”?
  • If appropriate at any moment, please into Stuck-Fear-Truth Technique.

Now, (insert the name of your Recipient/Client), I’d like to guide you through the second phase of this simple inquiry process.  

As I ask you a set of simple questions, I invite you to remain in a beginner’s mind, feeling your responses and tracking the very first thoughts, images, sensations that erupt in your awareness. 

I will document your answers, and then we will move into the third phase of this process. 

  1. Who are you? I am… (insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  2. What do you love to do? I love to… (insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  3. What do you feel qualified to teach? I feel qualified to teach…(insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  4. Who do you do it for? I do it for…(insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  5. What do those people want or need that you can give them? They want or need… (insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  6. How do they change or transform from what you give them? They become… (insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response
  7. How does that make you feel? It makes me feel… (insert their three responses)
    1. How does that make you feel?
    2. Document their response

Review their answers and collaborate with your Recipient to create an affirmation. 

Where necessary, engage the Stuck Fear Truth technique. 

Sacred Witness Phase 3:

Co-Create an Affirmation

It is good for me, and it is good for others when…

Let’s build an affirmation to support you in reprogramming your subconscious mind and help you begin manifesting what you want. 

Affirmation Baseline: It is good for me, and it is good for others when…

Bio-Signature: How does the affirmation make you feel? 

  • Once you have co-created with your Recipient their affirmation, invite them to recite it aloud and pay attention to how it makes them feel. 
  • This feeling and sensation response is their unique bio-signature for their affirmation. 
  • Working with both the affirmation and the bio-signature will increase the potentiality of their desired outcome. 

Note: You get to share this information in the worksheet for this lesson!

Step 8: Session Closure Intention:

  • Intentionally break your connection to the sea of consciousness outside of your consciousness. 
  • You may have merged with energies during the session so it is important to break that connection. 
  • It is critical to restoring your energy at this point intentionally.

Gently Invite your Recipient to return to an alert state

“Thank you (Recipient). I hope you found this helpful. I bring this session to a close NOW.”

Recite quietly or silently to yourself:

“All consciousness, not my own, including spiritual energies, beings and souls that may have merged and connected to me during this session – you must leave my energy field now.”

“Conscious Higher Self and my Spirit Team, please clear my energy field now.”

Take a quick energy shower:

Wash your field with white, pinks and green light through your entire being. You intend to wash off all energy that does not belong to you.

Visualize while you recite:

“I restore my energy field with white, pinks and green flowing light from the top of my energy field down to the bottom of my energy field.

“Conscious Higher Self and my Spirit Team, please restore my energy field now.”

  • Mindfully enter a space of gratitude and appreciation for the work you have just done.
  • Acknowledge your Trust & Faith in the assistance you have received with gratitude by silently saying a heartfelt Thank you to the unseen world of your Conscious Higher Self, your Spirit Team, Kannon, and Galactic Masters.
  • Consciously affirm that you have received what you asked for and more.
  • Now take a transition breath.

Silently: “My deepest gratitude to the unseen world of my Conscious Higher Self, my Spirit Team, Kannon, and the Galactic Masters. Thank you.”

(Pause.)

“You are now in an alert state. Open your eyes.”

Step 9: Switch Roles. Rinse and repeat in your new role

Step 10: Ground Your Experiences

  1. Please let me know what would have made this experience better for each of you?
  2. What would you want to ask me if I was there at your Dyad exercise?
  3. After your Dyad exercise, while your memory is still fresh, journal your experiences.
  4. Please share in the Telegram group chat

Step 11: Feedback Instructions:

  • Zoom Video File Format Upload Instructions:
  • Record and download your Dyad sessions as an MP4 Video File
  • After the zoom call, you will get an email notification from Zoom. It will contain a link to Zoom, where you will see download options.
  • Download your Zoom session as a video file MP4.
  • Make sure you download the video in Gallery View (For high-touch feedback, I need to see all participants’ faces)
  • Label the file: Program Week # + Date + Member Initial and Surnames
  • I.E. W3-04-15-2021+L.King+D.Smith
  • Under my name in Telegram, drag the MP4 video file into my chat, not the OITEW group chat.

Create Timestamps for Feedback:

  • I invite you to take responsibility for selecting the parts of your Dyad Exercise that you would like reviewed for constructive feedback.
  • Your goal is to uninhibitedly, humbly ask for mentoring guidance where you would like to improve, such as where you struggled, got stuck but also, your wins too! Share where you felt like a work of art in motion! Feedback is about celebrating your challenges and successes!

For Feedback: Review your Dyad Exercise Video

Set your intention: 

“Conscious Higher Self, please use our unique Bio-Signature as a way to help me to recognize where I need mentoring assistance to deepen my awareness and skill level.”

  1. You are essentially asking/training your Conscious Higher Self to activate your unique Conscious Higher Self Bio-Signature, at the specific timestamps where you require mentoring guidance.
  2. Compile a list of these timestamps for feedback (the beginning and ending timestamps).
  3. Order your timestamps in priority sequence (not linear time).
  4. Always start with your success timestamp!
    1. Build your confidence!
  5. Include your mentoring inquiry question with each timestamp.

Example:

Timestamp 1: 43:00 – 45:00 (2 minutes)

Mentoring Inquiry: I feel like I nailed this part – tell me, what do you think? I feel like a rockstar! Yeah!

Timestamp 2: 48:00 – 51:30 (3.5 minutes)

Mentoring Inquiry: Did my Recipient shut down at this point? What could I have done to help her back into being present and continue her process?

Timestamp 3: 20:00 – 23:00 (3 minutes)

Mentoring Inquiry: Did I miss an opportunity to delve deeper with my Recipient? I feel like I may have missed a signal from my Recipient.

Timestamp 4: 35:00 – 37:00 (2 minutes)

Mentoring Inquiry: How could I have better handled my Recipient’s response to my shared information? I felt like I did not know where to go next.

Total: 10.5 minutes for Feedback

Timestamps Feedback Request Word Document Upload Instructions:

Label as: Week + Date + Member Surnames

I.E. W3-04-15-2021+L. King+D.Smith.doc

Under my name in Telegram, drag the word doc file into my chat, not the OITEW group chat.

Step 12: WRAP UP

After your Dyad exercise, while your memory is still fresh, journal your experiences.

Jump into the worksheet for this lesson.